Being Alone: Boon or Bane
Like me, there would be thousands of boys and girls who at some point of there life have felt alone with very little social interactions and no-one to spend time with except you yourself. If you are one of them then some would be happy that they explored a new part of life of which most of the people are unaware and some would be ridiculing the times they went through "That" time and term that time as "Suffering" and misery and remember the time as the most dreaded times of their life.
Being alone has wonderful personality development opportunities but in some ways, it is drastic too..
Being Alone as Boon:
Exploring a new world:
There is a new world to explore, where only peace and silence awaits, where there is nothing to worry about and no one to worry for, neither you have anyone to worry for you, in basic terms you are a free soul, can do anything you want and like the way you want. You would decide your own outcomes, you would be your own student and your own teacher, you'll be amazed by how much you already knew when you will learn from yourself. The true beauty of nature can only be felt if you any point of life explored this world. For those who didn't, you have been enjoying only "Scenic" beauty of nature not the "True" one.
All the Time is yours:
When you are alone, you are not expected by anyone to give or spend your time with them, all the time is yours, this statement may sound quite obvious and simple but only those who don't have time for themselves know the value of time. So respect the gift you are gifted with. You can do all the work required to survive in the world and still after that you'll be left with more than enough time to spend and learn many new things from the most awesome person in the world, and that's you.
Exploding Creativity:
Whenever you have any type of company, their thinking, words and mindsets, whether you admit or not change your behavior, thinking, language and mindset. You won't even notice the changes they had been feeding to your brain unconsciously which are manifested by your brain subconsciously and when the changes become powerful enough they take a physical form as your actions or consequences of your actions, but when don't have any type of company, you don't change for no reason. You change for the better. You think what you can think and no one else because then no one restricts or manipulates your thinking by any subconscious remote control. You are the master of your brain, you can train it in any way you like.
Love for Body:
In the hectic life, we get no time to exercise or to stay fit. For a healthy living, physical fitness is necessary. When you have all the time and all the creativity you are leading to the steps of physical fitness. Since, you have time, you can try out every single exercise you learned from any resource in the world and adopt the one that suits you and when you'll start exercising you'll start understanding the physics of exercising and how it biologically affects humans. Through your creativity you can invent new exercises or modify the existing ones and then practice them according to you. Exercising must always be a fun activity and then you can be the ultimate machine who can create or modify exercise that your hormone fed brain would like. Since, you have all the time, you'll never ever get busy enough to say "I should miss exercise today else I'll be delaying the other work" thus keeping you on schedule. And when you have finally understood the physics of exercise you can generate your own exercise schedules to get leaner.(The more on physical fitness will be covered in future posts.)
Love for Food:
For a fit body, feeding it with healthy food is necessary. When you have time, you just start saying "It's boring"!, well it's never boring to improvise the quality of life, you can research how the feeding works, how our body reacts to which food and then personally experiment each of the findings on yourself and then use the result for yourself to improve the quality of life.
Love your brain:
Since, time is there, health is there, good food is there, now's the time for brain training. The only requirement is will power and time (which you already have). Abandon the world of cold, dark and negative atmosphere and step into the warm, bright and positive environment of new world you've explored. You've a lot to see and feel. Feed you brain with good thoughts, stay positive. Humans have the strange capability of resisting change whether it is for good or bad they always resist the change. Train your brain to take a command on this capability and change for good, read positive attitude encouraging books and quoted and try implementing them in your life.
Love yourself:
Let's start from beginning, when you have all the time, you are physically fit, eating good food, and have been training your brain for good. You are nearly invincible now. You made an invincible soldier of yourself who would be greatly efficient to fight the ups and downs of life and a you also made a good human of yourself so that you would be able to enjoy "true" beauty of nature I talked about. Ever saw a person sitting alone on a bench in a park and enjoying the moment alone, well you might have seen many but only few of them are really experiencing the "True" beauty of nature.
Talking about myself, due to time, health, food and brain I explored another side of me and learned many new things, I never knew I could write poetry, I exercised and never realized that eventually i got so fit that I was able to learn Parkour, fit enough to learn BBoying moves (as I had passion for dancing since I was 13) and a lot more. Since, I was alone I tried every single thing within my grasp to pass my time and here I am from Fatso to toned body, brain and body trained good enough to learn a new skill without much effort and leading a healthy life, facing the ups and downs of life by tackling them with full power, well you can do it too!
Being Alone as Bane:
Lack of love for themselves:
These people lack love for themselves and eat high fat foods to please their brain, since fat is the pleasure giving agent to brain besides positive thoughts, they don't exercise and wait for this dingy time to pass by but the time is long enough that they had done so bad to them already that when they realize, it is already too late.
Sharing my personal experience, I too took the wrong fork, I too was depressed and fed my brain with negative thoughts. The case was so severe that I was on the antidepressants because I felt sleepy all the time of day even after waking up a good nights sleep. Then I was finally fed up of myself and accepted the fact that my change resisting capability was resisting my change for good. I trained hard, did every work on schedule, found various activities to indulge in to make me so busy that I won't even think of the depressing things and gave specific amount of time to sort the things out improve myself to tackle the things which caused depression.
Well if i can do it, you can do it too, it might be my way, You got to figure your way out of the misery, try and practice every new method to make you life a boon. You can do it, since you have all the time you have right? Make your own methods to tackle problem don't count on methods of other people who had same experience because somewhere in you, you have creativity right?
And when you'll succeed, results will be overwhelming!!!
Being Alone as Boon:
Exploring a new world:
There is a new world to explore, where only peace and silence awaits, where there is nothing to worry about and no one to worry for, neither you have anyone to worry for you, in basic terms you are a free soul, can do anything you want and like the way you want. You would decide your own outcomes, you would be your own student and your own teacher, you'll be amazed by how much you already knew when you will learn from yourself. The true beauty of nature can only be felt if you any point of life explored this world. For those who didn't, you have been enjoying only "Scenic" beauty of nature not the "True" one.
All the Time is yours:
When you are alone, you are not expected by anyone to give or spend your time with them, all the time is yours, this statement may sound quite obvious and simple but only those who don't have time for themselves know the value of time. So respect the gift you are gifted with. You can do all the work required to survive in the world and still after that you'll be left with more than enough time to spend and learn many new things from the most awesome person in the world, and that's you.
Exploding Creativity:
Whenever you have any type of company, their thinking, words and mindsets, whether you admit or not change your behavior, thinking, language and mindset. You won't even notice the changes they had been feeding to your brain unconsciously which are manifested by your brain subconsciously and when the changes become powerful enough they take a physical form as your actions or consequences of your actions, but when don't have any type of company, you don't change for no reason. You change for the better. You think what you can think and no one else because then no one restricts or manipulates your thinking by any subconscious remote control. You are the master of your brain, you can train it in any way you like.
Love for Body:
In the hectic life, we get no time to exercise or to stay fit. For a healthy living, physical fitness is necessary. When you have all the time and all the creativity you are leading to the steps of physical fitness. Since, you have time, you can try out every single exercise you learned from any resource in the world and adopt the one that suits you and when you'll start exercising you'll start understanding the physics of exercising and how it biologically affects humans. Through your creativity you can invent new exercises or modify the existing ones and then practice them according to you. Exercising must always be a fun activity and then you can be the ultimate machine who can create or modify exercise that your hormone fed brain would like. Since, you have all the time, you'll never ever get busy enough to say "I should miss exercise today else I'll be delaying the other work" thus keeping you on schedule. And when you have finally understood the physics of exercise you can generate your own exercise schedules to get leaner.(The more on physical fitness will be covered in future posts.)
Love for Food:
For a fit body, feeding it with healthy food is necessary. When you have time, you just start saying "It's boring"!, well it's never boring to improvise the quality of life, you can research how the feeding works, how our body reacts to which food and then personally experiment each of the findings on yourself and then use the result for yourself to improve the quality of life.
Love your brain:
Since, time is there, health is there, good food is there, now's the time for brain training. The only requirement is will power and time (which you already have). Abandon the world of cold, dark and negative atmosphere and step into the warm, bright and positive environment of new world you've explored. You've a lot to see and feel. Feed you brain with good thoughts, stay positive. Humans have the strange capability of resisting change whether it is for good or bad they always resist the change. Train your brain to take a command on this capability and change for good, read positive attitude encouraging books and quoted and try implementing them in your life.
Love yourself:
Let's start from beginning, when you have all the time, you are physically fit, eating good food, and have been training your brain for good. You are nearly invincible now. You made an invincible soldier of yourself who would be greatly efficient to fight the ups and downs of life and a you also made a good human of yourself so that you would be able to enjoy "true" beauty of nature I talked about. Ever saw a person sitting alone on a bench in a park and enjoying the moment alone, well you might have seen many but only few of them are really experiencing the "True" beauty of nature.
Talking about myself, due to time, health, food and brain I explored another side of me and learned many new things, I never knew I could write poetry, I exercised and never realized that eventually i got so fit that I was able to learn Parkour, fit enough to learn BBoying moves (as I had passion for dancing since I was 13) and a lot more. Since, I was alone I tried every single thing within my grasp to pass my time and here I am from Fatso to toned body, brain and body trained good enough to learn a new skill without much effort and leading a healthy life, facing the ups and downs of life by tackling them with full power, well you can do it too!
Being Alone as Bane:
Negative Thoughts poison our brain:
Just like good food is healthy food for body good thoughts are healthy fuel for our brain. Some people may take a different fork subconsciously towards the journey to the "New world" to be explored and feed their brain with negative thoughts like, "Nobody cares if i live or die", "I am worth nothing", " I hate myself", and many more which leads you to depression and suicidal tendencies.Lack of love for themselves:
These people lack love for themselves and eat high fat foods to please their brain, since fat is the pleasure giving agent to brain besides positive thoughts, they don't exercise and wait for this dingy time to pass by but the time is long enough that they had done so bad to them already that when they realize, it is already too late.
Sharing my personal experience, I too took the wrong fork, I too was depressed and fed my brain with negative thoughts. The case was so severe that I was on the antidepressants because I felt sleepy all the time of day even after waking up a good nights sleep. Then I was finally fed up of myself and accepted the fact that my change resisting capability was resisting my change for good. I trained hard, did every work on schedule, found various activities to indulge in to make me so busy that I won't even think of the depressing things and gave specific amount of time to sort the things out improve myself to tackle the things which caused depression.
Well if i can do it, you can do it too, it might be my way, You got to figure your way out of the misery, try and practice every new method to make you life a boon. You can do it, since you have all the time you have right? Make your own methods to tackle problem don't count on methods of other people who had same experience because somewhere in you, you have creativity right?
And when you'll succeed, results will be overwhelming!!!










